Thursday, October 21, 2010

Relationships.

Hey all, again.. This post is actually not dedicated to anyone. Its something i wanted to tell. Or rather write and share in this case. To start of with, i would like you to ponder over somthing for a minute, what do you really mean by a relationship??
After you have thought about that, continue reading this. In general (as far as i know) if yu talk about relationships, or that yu are in a relationship, its an assumption that its ur guy/girl as in lovers. Well i wont blame anyone but still, i cant stop thinking what happened to all the other links to a person if this is referred to as a relationship. Not what i am trying to tell anyways :/
So according to me, there are only two types of things that decide how much you mean to the other person, or as people cal it your "relationship" with the person. In complex terms its the series of events that decide he is with or against him or her who does certain series of activities which may or may not bother the other. In simple terms, its love or hate. Call me stupid(please don't :|) but i don't believe that there are specifications in "relationships". It doesn't even narrow down to love or hate. That's pretty much it in my belief in the system. Its like trying to feed ginger to a monkey (don roll your eyes, i have not tried it) In my opinion.
So if you ask me (doesn't matter if you don't, because i am going to tell it anyway) if i dont believe that there are things like brothers, sisters, lover, wife etc (dint pluralize the last two because it felt lame) I wont lie, the answer would be a no. As much as i know, and as much as i have experienced, they are just names for levels of liking that people have for another. Not a discovery but still a statement :D. Anyway for me, if i like a person, i say i love them, or i dont say anything :P. Friends, Sister, Brother, Love blah :/ dang them. Its all love :)

Friday, October 15, 2010

the 3 fantasies..

Well hey again :), the 5 fantasies are not my fantasies, they are 5 words which give a lot of pressure in head..

1. WHAT IF:
As a normal human being, the word that mostly pops out in out head is "what if"... Its human nature and thats how all think. But this mostly happens only after a long time of events happening in ones own life. If you ask a person who has failed in exams he would say "if only i had studied", a person who had an accident,"if only he or i had watched out". a person whos someone had died,"if only i had known this i would ve done something". A person who barely passed in exam,"what if i had written that other answer, would have failed", a person who barely escaped an accident,"what if i had been there a second early"..
Thats the magic word. That almost all the people use to visualise the best or the worst that COULD have happened. And every person has his/her own top "what if's". Example mine are
1. what if i was never born - hypothetical, basically removes the chances of other 4
2. What if i had never come to chennai - Would not have studied in the school i studied in, would not have gained these people, would not have been what i am now.
3. What if i had not been in a theatre the day i answered "the" call- m not sure may be i stil would be smiling and happy
4. What if i was a stronger person by character - would've been way better than what i am now..
5. What if i were a girl - well, i would not have been a guy :|

Jokes apart guys, its actually a very big thing, the "what if" i mean. If you think about it, its like a different world, in which you can be who you want to be. Or who you could have been.

2.I WISH
Now if girls are reading this then its not the one you usually say :P
guy: m the right guy for yu
gal: yeah yu wish...

Its the word which a kid to a old person thinks, "aah i wish i were a star"..
A kid may wish "i wish i become a policeman so i can beat up everyone" a teenager "i wish she/he becomes mine forever" working person" i wish i get a better job and prove myself"
Now when it comes to old people there are 2 cases
1. happy old.."I wish i could see my grandchildren marry"
2. happy sad.."Oh my good god just take me away these morons are never going to get married"

Its like a dream for all the people and it proves that a kid is stil there in hearts of all the grown ups.

3. lets put a pin to it.
Well this is kind of a long shot, mostly people in the states use this, and its used when you want to prove something despite the existing fact. Say for example a married girl was your lover and now you want to tel her that you still in love with her and she still means a lot to you.
girl: No , i am married i cant do this right now.
guy : lets just put a pin to that fact that you are married and lets get back to that later, imagine us for now..
etc..

LOL dunno even why i wrote this just felt so :)