What have i learnt? Lol i have no idea!

30. Deep down we all knew what the joker said from the dark knight was right, "nobody panics when things go according to the plan." a good example, 21/12/2012.

29. When someone is in pain, is hurt or is about to die, its better to be normal with them, no i am not being cinematic. Be normal crack jokes, be stupid and pretend to be a clown. It really makes them feel better than empathizing or being sympathetic about it.

28. I bet even my dog will laugh at me cos none of these realizations will stay with me in the long run but i will definitely absorb some

27. Forgiving someone is divine. Not because of the deed, because of the selfish happiness you get when you truly do it.

26. Only a few people can make you smile in situations of Mind F*** and you are one of those few who can make them smile in A smiliar situation, whats better? You again are one of those who can put them in that situation in the first place.

25. As kamal haasan said in his trailer, "Oru por engae thodanga padugindradu ? oru Punnagai Niragarika padum idathil!" which means "where does the foundation for a war lie? where a smile is refused." Its pretty much true if ya think about it. And don take it in the literal way, its a symbol. 

24. Before you even think of bringing peace to the nation or world, bring peace in your life and your self. That is where it all starts






 

23. There are a huge amount of people who do not understand the difference between keeping a personal opinion and forcing their opinions on you. I know this cos i was one of the later.

 22. Its perfectly okay to be kiddish at times. Only kids know what they are doing and they do what they want to. Adults however do what they need to. and that makes all the frigging difference.

 21. Whenever you hang on to something/someone too much it turns out that you lose that big priority in its/his/her time. when you are too ignorant about something/someone, it/him/her will lose the importance in your life and you become comfortable without it.  Maintaining the right balance in this is like adding salt to your food. you can eat it with more less or no salt at all, but only when there is the right amount you realize how it was meant to be, COMPLETE.


 20. We never actually learn much, because we know many things already, we just realize them slowly

 19. For every guy giving up is the most difficult thing and for every girl giving in to her feeling is the most difficult thing. And when these two come together, that's when it all starts, "macha, i think she is in love with you da" epic statement right?

 18. You always want to do something else than what you are doing presently until you know what you want and end up in it.

17. When you are too self conscious about yourself, you make more mistakes than you usually do.

16. Every parent would want their children to marry a guy/girl of their choice. Just like its not wrong for you to love a person its not wrong of them to say no at first. 








 *** Gets a bit slow and serious after this so if yu re bored, i don care :P read on***

15. While speaking to someone you can easily tell the type of person they are and if you believe them or not. If that person is awesome with speech then he doesn't have to be right for you to believe him

14. You always tend to want to lose your weight but more often than never you want to do it without effort.

13. Your mind always calculates a "death vs survival" ratio when you drive and there are those awesome rare times when you survive when your mind calculates death.

12. You always seem to think a lot while staring at other people

11. Your phone, your Bike, your car and your stuff is always awesome cos its YOURS!

10. Judging people, is one of the most stupid things to do. When you are not good enough a person you cannot judge someone. When you become a good enough person, you wont judge anyone.

9. Expectation is something that is by far the most overrated "in-mind" emotion. if you expect something then go ahead and say it, no one in this world is a mind reader.

8. Possessiveness is one of those feelings that make you walk on razors edge. You just hate it or you just like it but unless the above stated number 9 happens directly, you cannot put a pin on it

7. Putting myself down to make people laugh is one of the nicest things i can do. Because that way they wouldn't tease me at the same time they would laugh an be happy as well(or i hope so).

6. This is for the sarcastic people. ALWAYS PICK YOUR MOMENT!! wrong place wrong time = knife on the neck.

5. Unique, weird, Different are the synonyms of the same word. If someone calls you any of these terms feel proud. He/she s calling you so cos they think you are one of a kind and that's a flawless victory.

4. Maturity is not about doing great things in life its about understanding the smaller things in your an others life.

3. Most guys are a different person with the girl they love and different when they are around friends. That person who they are with the girl, is what they ll be with them for the rest of their life.

2. Driving fast is not the same as driving rash. Its for all the girls to understand as well. If a person goes slow and a truck rams him, what then? if he would have gone faster may be he would have escaped. Scenarios exist. So say drive safe and not drive slow

1. You are the most important person in your life and you are the only person who knows every damn thing about you. Selfish? So what?You can never love someone else more than you can love your self, and if you do love someone else more (or say so) it means you have no respect for yourself, you are just fooling yourself and the girl or you are just plain stupid, none of which are good..

BONUS: When you stop caring about what others think say or do, is when you ll understand what you want to think say or do!

Happy new year people :D

A DAYS NOT(ICE) ENOUGH

I am not that great at writing stories that are entirely fictitious, here is my 1st try. Please give your criticism as comments so that I can improve. Here goes.
This is the monologue of a father Vikram to his 8 month daughter Maaya.

Maaya I miss you so much. You have changed me so much over these days and I thank you for having made me the person I am now. It’s so different and beautiful. I never thought this can be something that could change with me. I still remember fighting with Varsha over your name. It all seems to have happened just now.

It’s amazing that despite being so close to you, I still miss you. I feel that you are holding my finger with your entire hand. You want to know a secret? I have always hated kids. Till I saw you in a sonogram, that was my opinion about kids. Because I always thought that they were a huge responsibility. Also they were always screaming and in constant need for attention. And I frankly felt they were a pain. But the day I saw you in the sonogram holding Varsha’s hands, all of those fears went off in an instant. All we saw was one small spot moving. And I knew at that moment, that something this gorgeous could never be a pain and was worth anything in this world. And I mean ANYTHING.

You know what? I first met Varsha during my 1st year in college. She was wearing a white dress stained with coffee all over. She did not look astoundingly beautiful or anything. But she was something special I knew it that instant. It was not love at first sight, at least not for her. Finally after a week I saw her again. I saw her again in the canteen she was with her friends. I came with my friend. Her name was Shalini. I was with her because that was the start of the college and she was the only one I knew as she was from my school. And she was from ECE department. I asked her who that girl was and she said she had seen her in her class. After a week or something I came to know that her name was varsha. And to my luck she was Shalini’s best friend.

I still remember how I first spoke to her. It was near our college ground Shalini and varsha were walking and I waved from the other side. She signaled that she was leaving in train. At that moment some instinct made me say that I was coming as well. I had a class in the afternoon and it was a practical session. I bunked it and left with them. I said hi to Varsha. That was the first time I spoke to her. Then while in train I found out that we have very few things common. OK just two and that was that we both hate chocolates. Shalini got down at her stop. I and varsha were still traveling and she got down in my stop (WOW was my minds voice)she stayed like 10 minutes away from my place. And so it began, we became good friends and then great friends.

We started going to places, like if she wanted to get something from the mart or something like that she would call me since I was nearby her house. I used to walk her to her house every day from the station. And on purpose we started taking the long route. My parents already liked her a lot and so did her parents like me. And by the final year we became really close to each other. There was one day when she was sitting in the station alone and crying because she had failed in one of her semester exams. I came late because I was waiting for a chance to play table tennis but ever got the chance. I went up to her and sat down near her and said “you know you look damn good when you cry”. She lifted her head. I said okay “maybe I was wrong” and smiled. She then wiped her tears and spoke to me and we were speaking everything under the sun. Then we saw the time it was 11 o clocks. She checked her mobile and saw 26 missed calls and 21 new messages. No wonder we dint see any train for a long time now. She called up her parents and informed that she was late because she had fainted etc. Then we decided to take a bus and right when we were about to start there was a train. Thank god the last train was late She said that I made her really happy and thanked me. I walked with her to her house and then reached home.

Things were going great between us and already people had started teasing us. Actually I was feeling happy about that. One day I said I had met with an accident and I was in bed in my house. She came running and found the house locked. There was a note and it was written “IF IT’S VARSHA COME UPSTAIRS, ANYONE ELSE ALSO COME UPSTAIRS”. She came up running and opened the door and saw a dark room just one small burning lamp. There was a note below the lamp which said “go to the next room”. Then she went to the next room and found room full of balloons and all of them were heart shaped balloons. There were so many balloons that when she opened the door all of them came pouring out. She kept calling to my mobile this whole time but I did not pick it up. Then finally she saw a not stuck on the window saying “OPEN THE NEXT DOOR” and then when she opened that door then to her surprise she found a vanilla cake surrounded by candles alone in which it was written “WANNA GIVE “US” A TRY”. She was standing still there. I was on the other side of the door waiting for her to turn but she never did. I could see the side of her face glowing with the candle light. I thought she was looking down and messaging me. But she was wiping her eyes and turned and was shocked to find me standing there. She came close to me and whispered in my ears something that drove me crazy. I was so shocked to hear that. She said “BEFORE I SAY ANYTHING, I JUST WANNA SAY THAT YOUR ZIP IS OPEN”. Then she held my hand and dragged me near to her and said “YES I WOULD LOVE TO TORTURE YOU FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE”. The rest is history. It was hard getting out parents’ consent since I was a topper and she had difficulty in clearing her exams which eventually she did with a lot of help. After a long wait our parents accepted and we were MARRIED.

We both agreed that we did not want babies earlier so we decided to push that a bit towards the future. We were living our life to the fullest and were so much in love. After a year or so varsha was pregnant. We both were so happy that she was pregnant and we were going to have a baby. We were so happy and the whole world’s happiness was inside our heart. Then we decided not to invite one of our friends and she said that we should invite despite the cold war. After a while of argument I said, “OK HONEY, YOU WIN BUT YOU WILL HAVE TO INVITE HIM” She agreed and left to invite him. She said she would take the car. She left in the car while I waved her bye through the window.

Little did I know that it was the last time I would be seeing her. After half an hour of her departure I got a call from an anonymous number. When I answered it a lady’s voice spoke, “Sir is this Vikram?”
“Yes I am Vikram speaking, who is this?”
“Sir this is Dr.Shekar from AM hospital, your wife has met with an accident and we would like you to come over immediately”
“Is she ok? IS SHE OK?"

"sir she is fine please get over here as soon as possible"
My face was sweating and my hands were shivering. I dint have a clue what to do just as face is wet with tears now. I started in my bike and went there really fast but it was too late. She was gone. Varsha was history. Now I am seeing the cradle and I am speaking to just the pillows, the cradle is as empty as my life. Because you were still in her and she was still pregnant. Though I am left alone I still have your memories to live with. Love you a lot and I miss you a lot Maaya.

HUM-(an)-ILIATION

Ok for once I am going to try writing a light post. Since many people (only2) had asked me to. And because of those people, you (the ones who are reading this) are going to have to bear with my sarcasm. That’s the way this whole post is going to be. So without any further "blah" here goes the post.
As the title goes it’s about humiliation. And adding a “man” there would be like pointing to a country and saying it is one. But sometimes you just need to be reminded, that only humans have the concept of humiliation, just like we constantly need to be reminded that Canada is a country.
Humiliation is just something that people feel when they do something and/ or something someone else does to them and/or something awkward may happen. So that’s the definition by me, as though I taught you all a class. That’s why people prefer being kids, because they don’t feel ashamed or embarrassed or any synonym of that. In simple words, for kids its
“All game and no shame”
No don’t look at me I just am making this up. Not that we can run around without caring for what embarrassment we went through, but there is a plan of action for everything. So to clear it up, it’s just a part of our life, and for some, life is a part of everyday humiliation. Well, some teachers are there right? Whom students make fun of, and by fun, I mean all the time. So these people fall under the second category. Moving on to the important part, I will help you understand the concept of humiliation, how to avoid it and also how to escape the situation if humiliated.
So going into the topic, I am going to divide this into DO’s and DON’T’s,
DO’s
· Act as though nothing ever happened and it’s just another day at “office” and walk on and say “hey man whats up” then you should look at his face. The humanity.
· Act fast and come up with a smart one liner which will make the people around you laugh more. Like the classic, when you fall down say you were searching for a one rupee coin.
· If it’s a lot against one which is obviously you, and if you happen to know their insults you could use them as a threaten but remember never tell it. Just start with it because this is not your first humiliation and definitely not going to be your last.
· Mock yourself before they start mocking you. The logic is if it’s a self damage, it’s as small as an elf damage.
· Or better than all of the above, do see to it that you don’t fall into such a situation.

DON’T’s
· If you get humiliated or into an awkward position in a work place or a similar environment, don’t EVER look around you and see who saw you. Because that will give a long lasting impression of U being a humiliated person. Of course most people in engineering would have learned this by the easy or the hard way.
· Don’t “think” of the consequences as in what might happen later on because of a humiliation now, just keep moving. Most people never think otherwise so why strain for this.
· Don’t speak if you know that you can never manage to get out of an awkward situation. Because if you speak well, that’s fine you can easily get out of a situation. But if you think you are speaking smart and go blabber like a politician, then you are done for and a goner.
· Don’t fake a phone call at such situations to escape because usually people who end up in this situation are the people who have bad luck swarming around them waiting to attack. So if you decide to pick up a fake phone call and someone calls you it will be something worse than the situation you previously were. It will be like,
“Yeah dude temme ssup, what plans to.. (ringtone)whats ma name, no no no no sheeela sheela ki jawaani ….(\ringtone)..”
· Don’t follow any of these if you are a 1st bencher or a “rules” person.
· And most importantly don’t forget to comment for this else I would be humiliated.

And my top 5 humiliations ever would be

5. Was walking on the road with a friend in a crowded street. And by the end of a street there was a couple looking at me as though i had committed a crime. Then i realised that my friend was nowhere to be found and i had been talkin to strangers for almost 5 minutes.

4. My broadband plan was changed from 2mbps to 256 kbps which is basically a sad download speed. I called up the service provider and started blasting them, after a good 10 minutes the female said, sir you had given a plan change request day before yesterday. The culprit was my dad. It was his plan.

3. This was way back in school days, i used to play cricket and it was my first inter school match. They told me to stand in fine leg. I said ok and stood. Only two or three balls came near me which i picked and threw. I got so bored that i started dancing for macorina song. After a good 5 overs they yelled at me "DOT YOU KNOW WHAT FINE LEG IS? YOU ARE STANDING IN MID ON. YOU CAN DANCE BUT THIS YOU DONT KNOW?"

2. I had told in one of the classes in school that another teacher would be taking the class and the same to the person whom i had told would be taking the class. My good luck they both caught me in cafeteria and since then i was called a cheater.

1. I dont know how funny or stupid this would be but one of my friends had a good laugh for three days after this incident. We were in Dominos pizza and had placed our order and we were talking to each other. Then the guy called out my name and i extended my hand to get the order. 2 girls from behind came and took the boxes and went. I stood there standing like a pathetic loser. The girls laughed till they left my vision area. And worst, the guy said "sir i your order will be ready in a few minutes please wait." OH MAN!!


All these were written out of own personal experience and that’s how I know so much about all this. So this indicates the “self damage” part of the story. And I mean all of these I have personally gone through, including the mobile incident. So take care and be as less humiliated as possible. CHEERS!!

One in a million, RE-WIND

DISCLAIMER: ALL NAMES AND INCIDENTS ARE FICTITIOUS, blah blah and more blah is mere co-incidence.

This post is dedicated to one person who was my best friend. And still lives in my heart!

From FEB 24 2010 17:46 - the REST OF MY LIFE
There I was, lost forever, trapped and without a choice, holding my head in one hand and the ring on the other. Crying my heart out but I could not produce a sound. All hopes were lost. The tears in my face were covered by the rain drops. I was the one who always told her that I never wanted anyone to see me cry. But then now I wish she would open her eyes at least to see me cry and tell me not to cry.

FEB 24 2010 17:45
I felt empty. I dint have words to express myself for what I had done. She was the only one I had in my life and now I was alone. Alone once again. Yes I had told her that loneliness was something that I loved but now I felt that she could have been there with me to share the loneliness. Even my ego, my pride my aim, my achievements had left me alone. Now I know what being lonely meant. The fair face was because she was having leukemia, blood cancer. She was not able to come but still did just because I had asked her to. She had become thin not because of her gym but because she was not well. It was weak not thin. The thud while on the call was because she had fainted. And I failed to notice that. Despite all that she had come just to make me happy and what did I do? Hurt her, irritate her, and kill her.

FEB 24 2010 15:30
she was there, still as a rock. Alone in her home, in her bed. There was a sudden rush that fell as a heavy thud in my heart. And all the voices came rushing to me. She was gone, for good. A deadly cancer had taken her away from me. Her mom had told me it was cancer. But it was all over before it even started. Cursing myself I took out my chain which was a gift from her and placed it on her beautiful hands. Then with a hollow punch of pain I went near her ear and said "I am really sorry Sam...” and I left the place with welled up eyes and a heavy heart.

FEB 23 2010 09:44
"That's it I cannot take any more of your ignorance. This is no longer a relationship. It’s always about you and you just seem to be interested about yourself. It’s as if you never wanted me here. And it’s me who is always pushing things and taking initiatives to keep this relationship healthy. That's it, I quit, FOR GOOD!!" were her last words. I tried to explain how it all was just a game. But she refused to accept it. She must hate me. Well even I was not crazy about myself at that point. I ran behind her and explain all about it but it dint seem to go anywhere." I woke up with a start it was all a dream. I had to apologize to her. Be with her again. So after all that wait I started for her house. To apologize in person. But the Ego restrained me. So I stayed.

FEB 22 2010 15:31
it had been more than a week since I had spoken to Sam. And I was starting to feel really guilty. It was not my fault but that’s not the point at all. It was a huge fight but now it’s all getting on to my head. I was stupid and I should have apologized to her but I did not. It was her mistake as well. The ego dint let me move forward with the apology. I was an achiever up till then, that dint let me put my foot down. But at the end no matter whose mistake it is the distance between US increases. I dint know what would make it better. And I was torn between my feelings and my ego. Damn the ego!!

FEB 14 2010
it was the day of roses, Valentine’s Day. I went to meet her. You know, SAM. The one and only, my beloved. I loved her so much but I felt something was wrong. I just knew it. I wanted to surprise her. I just got 100 odd candles and arranged it on the 1st floor of my house, in a small room which had lot of shelves. The candles were everywhere. And I had chosen a song called, expressions by Helen Jane so that it would be romantic. And then she came, her face was glowing more than it usually did, fair than usual she had become thin, since she was going to gym. I said "I am not going to compare you with the moon because moon has scars etc is an old line, in one line if I have to describe you I would say you are the most beautiful girl in this planet, in one WORD if I had to say it would be "PURE"". She smiled at me. She said "thanks a lot, this is the best thing anyone has ever done for me, you are the best." saying this she held my hand and gave me a silver chain. It was so good and I hugged her and looked into her eyes. but I saw that she was not happy. So I asked her
me: You stil like him dont you
her: please its valentine’s day and after this beautiful thing why are you at it again?
Me: if you thought it was beautiful then you wouldn't be so dull. If you don't like me just say so.
Her: oh come on, you know I loved it please don't be angry. That anger doesn't go well with your face,
me: okay m sorry too. By the way I have got us tickets for tomorrow. Morning movie then afternoon rain tree then at night a really nice play.
Her: m sorry ad I can’t make it. I have to go to vishal's house remember? I told you la his cousin is getting married. I got to go to Trivandrum.
me: Go day after tomorrow Na, please stay for tomorrow I made all the arrangements.
Her: sorry da cant. I skipped today cos I know I have the best guy in the world.
Me: please please tomorrow please.
Her: sorry da pleaase understand.
Me: so you like vishal more than me? Fine!!
Her: oh come on you know that's not true
me: then stay and prove it
her: stop it, now
me: why should I? You don't like me anymore.

AFTER A WHILE OF SIMILAR FIGHTS

her: That's it I cannot take any more of your ignorance. This is no longer a relationship. It’s always about you and you just seem to be interested about yourself. It’s as if you never wanted me here. And it’s me who is always pushing things and taking initiatives to keep this relationship healthy. That's it, I quit, FOR GOOD!Me: Fine I am not dying for you, one day you ll die for me and then you ll know.

FEB 9 2010 10:00
I called her up in the morning she dint pick up the call. I tried many times I could not reach her. I started getting worried. And got paranoid so kept trying she dint pick up the call. Later at three in the noon she called me, and apologized for not answering the call I yelled at her but then I heard a thud as if she fell down and got worried. I was not able to reach her for some hours and then she called me again. She said that she fell down from the swing and her mobile was not working properly and she had given it for repair.
FEB 7 2010 00:00she called me at twelve, and said "HAPPY 5 YEAR anniversary honey" I said thanks a lot and we spoke about our relationship till two or three o clock. But I sensed her coughing a lot and also sounding really weak. I dint want to upset her so I dint ask her about it. We kept talking and I said ok I am going to sleep I have got a match in morning. I am sorry SAM. Gunnite! She sounded sad when she said bye, but I dint say anything. And we met in the evening I was only boasting to her about my match entirely and I dint even ask her how she was and all that.

FEB 7 2005 16:00
it was after tuition that she came near me. We used to go home together pushing the cycle. In the 4 years we had become really best friends and I felt that we had gone a tad more than that. But I dint say anything. While walking she said,"sri I need to tell you something, rather talk to you about it" saying this she pulled my hand. Sure she thought it was romantic but my cycle fell down. She said, “There is something I have been feeling lately. And I don’t know what it is. I mean I think I have crossed the limits by my heart and become too close to you" I started smiling and saying something but she interrupted "no let me finish please. I think about you all the time and always for everything, you are the one guy I speak to this much apart from my dad. And I don’t know what to name this relationship but it’s not restricted to friendship. Love seems too awkward considering we are too young. I am sorry I don’t know how to express myself. I just feel," I kept my finger on her lips and said, “yes, I love you too Sam". Tears were filled in her eyes she was so happy and jumping with joy. This got me since I was not so attractive. She looked like an angel just even more beautiful.

JAN 12 2004 11:45
I had a bad fever and also I had my exams. I don’t pray to god. Not that I don’t believe in him it’s just that, he is there, let him be there. But she called me up and said "how are you feeling." I said I was fine but was worried about fever and the exam. She said "don’t worry I have prayed to 4 gods, I pray only to 3 gods daily but since yesterday I dint pray for myself, that is for me to get a good guy, you know with all the looks I asked for, I have that one pending so I used it for you today.. You will clear the exam easily" I dint know I would say this but I did "Sam, I don’t believe in god, But I believe in you when you pray for me, Thanks a lot. You will get the best guy in this world. i promise!!"

Leaves, from the old tree... memories

A small post which i would like to dedicate to someone special.... In this generation, where people are giving their life to gettin settled in their life (couldn't help noticing but tat was unintended). Forgetting even the most important thing in their life which is also important for other people around you. No its not loveing, its bathing. Ok i was kidding there but all that emotional and elderly speech is about to come and people are going to sleep so why not a joke? But that was lame. So continuing what the discussion was about, its a mechanical life out there (mechanical?? only the people who know me will understand the determination that i took not to have said something sarcastic here). Money is needed and so people work and a few reach a position in which they give other people work (either because their family was in the same or by hard work or by an idea). And in that race what we dont get is, time.

Very often people would be reminded of their past life (trust me even the happiest ones do it), and everything about it. Every now and then people listen to some song and imagine themselves in that place, imagining about the past, about How beautiful things were.The most dumb things we ever said became jokes. The things we invent become famous about us. How much they miss the people with whom they thought they would never be separated. How much they miss the attention given by those very people who were called friends. That nervousness which they had before proposing to a girl or a guy you have been so much in love with. The sound after they say what they feel (may be the sound of a kiss or the sound of a slap depends on the result).

The most random get togethers, the parties where cake used to be more on the face less on the plate and lesser in ur stomach. When TV was only for sports and movies. Laptops and computers were for gaming music and downloading movies chatting. Teasing your friends with a girl or guy but being 90% happy when your friend says tat they love someone (10% obviously you are jealous). Consoling someone after their break up despite knowing that it is never going to cheer them up. Bunking classes despite the rules. Getting caught and looking at each others faces and sniggering and trying hard to control laughter. Becoming curious while walking with a girl and your eyes start moving with the speed of light scanning every place atleast thrice a minute which means you are looking at other places far more lower number of times than at the girl(i think girls dont have that habit because mostly none of the girls i know have done this). But we hardly get the time to repatch things.

Its not only about school and college. Its about every thing that you did in the past. No matter what you have done, there always will be a mild question in your mind doubting your decision. And controlling the mind is not something easy to do. If you sacrifice something, something you love a lot for someone else, later on you feel damn bad but you pretend to be happy. Such are the things you later feel if you had done things the other way you might have had something better. All the "what if's" can not be answered. Nothing that has happened in the past can ever be changed. Everybody has done stupid stuff which we laugh about later on. Things that made us cry earlier usually make us smile later on. Ok i ripped this from a text i got but hey dont all lovers say "i love you more than anyone else"? Not that it matters but had to do something to make me look positive. All we need is a little more time. No it is not copied from the song by jack wagner, Or prince of persia.

Dont feel shy to apologise, drop the ego when it comes to taking back loved ones, dont feel bad to shed your tears and dont ever lose a chance to say that you like care or love someone because you never know, it may be your last time, ever...

ready? get... set.. keep setting, stay, dont go!!

Hi all :) First of all wishing you a very prosperous revolution of the earth. new year they call it. and i am sorry for this huge delay in this post. And this post of mine may irritate you so all the "optimists",

Doesn't matetr if people say stop reading does it?? Obvious is it not?? :)

It has become so obvious and common in every man's life (not to be a male chauvinist, by man i mean huMAN) he definitely has faced a lot of years and obviously every year would have a January 1. Oh yeah that can be called as a new year.

We often face a position in our life when we ask ourselves these(or atleast .01% close to these) kind of questions,
Have you ever
->been to a party when yu often thought noone would notice if you were missing?
->Looked some one in the eye and told them how dumb and stupid they were?
->Slapped a stranger on purpose and said,"oh sorry i thought you were my friend because yu looked so similar to him." and repeat it?
->Walk in to a couple's room knowing they are making out and say,"eeeshk get a room"
->Stand on a foot board of an empty bus, and when the conductor says,"yu useless piece of shit come up and get in, if yu die my family goes to street." yu say,"if yu want yu come outside yu lazy piece of crap and besides yu have a family? Ok that gives me a hope that i definitely would get married."
->now you re thinking why are yu still reading this?

Well if you have done none of this then stop reading now(please dont, just an attitude attempt)
If yu have done atleast done one of those, then think. Think how happy you felt at that moment(ofcourse if you were not beaten up later on)

It has practically got nothing to do with this post except for the fact that all these things are considered to be fun. And i bet anyone that you can do these things on any day of the year. So the question is, why such a hype about new year? Lets face it, the old traditional reasons are so long dead and gone. Well it was actually because a solar calendar developed by Julius Ceaser in some B.C period and in that January 1st was said to be the completion of one revolution. And clearly we are not celebrating for that reason. Its for fun, thats all it is. Nothing new about the new year except for a number change in the date we use.

So the things that mostly happen on a new years eve, or the december month maximum are New release of movies, lot of hype about all the planning for the year, Celebrities and politicians on TV for no obvious reason, shaking hands, New(but mostly dumb) movies on TV channels,
no TV soaps
for house wives- damn :( no soap
for the youth- Another day to relax
For old people- yeah whatever

a Holiday
For working people- Finally a holiday
For 3rd year and final year college students
-> boys- damn a holiday, just catch a movie or something, ask the girls if they are coming
-> Girs- crap girls, its a holiday the guys would probably be waiting for us to go for a movie with them lets have some fun by making them wait { seriously what is wrong with you :/?} eventually the guys go alone and later the girls blame them for not taking them along.

More or less these are few of the things that happen on a new year or days close to it. Everyone knows that its nothing big except for the holiday and the hype. They just don wanna admit it because its fun. Overrating things is what it should be called. Hey its just another day. If you think about it there are some people who have the feeling that if something goes wrong on new year, the who year is gonna collapse for them. Many other Superstitious reasons as well.

New years day or eve january 1st is just another day we go through. Every month has a new day, every day has a new hour every hour has a new minute and it keeps going on. Life goes on it does not refresh just because its a new year. Things still happen and time still goes on. Being a social animal, we humans just overrate it to be a very High day in every year. If you give this rating to every second of your life, imagine how fabulous your life would be....
New years day or eve january 1st is just another day we go through.
cheers!!

the rain, the wind, the blue moon and her

It was a rainy day, i was sitting in my office, in my cabin, comfortable chair, side-screens open, soundproof glass but still could imagine the rain drops splatter on the glass, i loosened my tie and relaxed on the chair and leaning back i saw outside, through the blue tinted glass, the most beautiful sight i have ever seen in my life, moon through a misty n blurred glass. It seemed to be so beautiful that i kept looking at it like i used to look at a girl in my college(stop imagining, i spoke only one sentence to her in those 4 years of college). As i kept looking at that gorgeous moon a million thoughts were running through my head, one of which revolved around someone special. I started remembering every moment together with that person. Despite the blurry window the moon looked gorgeous, in a similar way the persons face was blurred but dazzling that person was despite the blur. My eyes were welled up because that person could not be there with me, my lips were smiling because of the moments we had were like indescribable. Pain filled with bits of pleasure, or in a less confusing but more complicated manner, an eternal bliss for a limited period of time. All of a sudden barging in all these almost a million thoughts, there was a knock at my cabins door. I, being the egoistic person i was i said,"come on in, it is not locked." what i saw there made me drop my jaw and i became speechless for the next few seconds. I could not believe my eyes. I got up and went near, it was the same person i was thinking about, the very same person whom i've been missing so much for all these months, the same person who keeps interrupting all my work at least once in fifteen minutes, saying "hi" with a smile which no smiley can ever explain. It was her. A bit differently dressed but i could bet my life it was her. All i could say was hi(better than Ross of course) and showed her the seat. An i stood by the glass, an we started speaking. I don't know about her but that was the best conversation i have ever had in my entire life. Then she came near me, and asked,"why dint it ever occur to you to get back together?". As i started to speak there was a tight slap. She said,"how could you leave me?" and came near me. All i could say was,"i am sorry" she came so close to me that i could feel her breath. She opened the glass windows and rain splattered on our faces, to my amazement the moon was blue. And there was heavy wind blowing which made it impossible for me to hear what she was saying. "Get the hell out of bed and get ready, and go for that interview yu lazy freak" were the first words i heard that morning. I was shocked because it was so real. I could feel the hit in my chest, i could feel the wind mildly, my face was wet.
Of course it was tuffy(my pet dog) which was licking my one side of the cheek, keeping its one paw on my chest, sniffing near my ears( the wind part probably). But the blue moon and her face, B.E.A.utiful..

Its not that people love you because you are special
you become special cos some people love you despite the way you are!!!